Trusting my Gut - even though I don't want to...

Actually, I trust my instincts - but I don't believe they are accidental. It feels like God is whispering something to me - "I'm not trying to frighten you, but I want you to prepare and be ready for something, just in case."

I found out yesterday afternoon what it was that triggered my instincts. On Friday, the Japanese ladies that were in a car accident with my daughter two years ago filed suit for the remainder of their expenses. Both Dan the Ogre and my daughter are listed in the suit. This means that he will be PISSED beyond belief - a lawsuit means that he will have to part with more of his money. Additionally, he did not list me on the title of said wrecked vehicle - so I am not listed on the suit- and my daughter was a minor when it happened - so I think the burden will fall to him. And since money is the center of his universe - this will not sit well - based on past behavior - he will want money from me as well as revenge for dragging his name through the mud.

We fixed the locks - notified the neighbors - made sure that the restraining order is on file with the police and made sure the gun is loaded and the safety is off. I no longer think I am overreacting - I think he will hire someone to try to find us - and with a professional license and kids in school, I am not sure how "disappeared" I am.